There is no right or wrong about the definition of the word “LOVE”. It depends on how a person defined it. A person may defined depends on his/her experience.When you see a person in a first time, you cannot say that you already love him/her because love at first sight is not true. You need to have time in order to develop. Once you feel that there is something special feeling inside, you then you decide to choose to the next level. Then on that stage you need to feel it more deeply. Taking care of it until an ultimate feeling developed and become strong.
To love is a decision. A decision that cannot be solved with another decision when you failed. When you decided to love a person, there is no turning back. When you say ” i love you” to a person of course you are already committed by words, but before that you are already committed by your feelings. Words are the confirmation on what really your feelings to each other and most importantly on how deep is your feeling to him. Do not get tired on telling your partner on how you love him/her. It maintains the great feelings to each other. Have proper communication. Even how hectic your schedules are , you must have time to him/her and don’t forget to say “thank you” because you will make feel your partner that he /she is valuable to you and feel him proud of himself.
There is no perfect relationship, because nobody is perfect. We may hurt each other feelings. We may offend our partners by our words, but it doesn’t mean that love lose. Sometimes, it also guide us to know about our partner. On which part he doesn’t like to be treated, on what are his/her dislikes and what words you need to avoid. The most important thing do when conflicts in a relationship happened is NOT TO GIVE UP. You know, your parents had conflicts for so many times but they stay together for how many years or even until their last breath. They did it because they did not give up each other. When reconciling relationship problem, be sure to PUT YOUR EGO DOWN.
Love is the best gift from God. We need to feel it, be happy for it and fight for it. When you asked someone from Him then fight for it, because He didn’t give that to us if that someone doesn’t make us happy.