A “Silence” is a secret killer.
Close your eyes. And think of a person who’s being silent with you.
How does it feel? Isn’t it pain?
Probably, it was… unless that person doesn’t really mean to you.
“Being silent” is an angelic-devil. It has a power to secrete the unresolved issues that constantly nibbling in someone’s soul. It plays unconsciously inside us; can manipulate our decision making capability.
Silence is like rust that eventually destroys our good relationship towards a person.
It hides our thoughts and desires. Most of us believed that time can heal, that is why most of us prepare to be silence than having confrontation.
Though, silence doesn’t promise any assurance of healing, some of us still laid on it. It is maybe simply because of fears; fear of argument, fear that we may hurt someone’s feeling and maybe fear of losing a person.
Unconsciously, we didn’t just hurt a person but we slowly kill her/him by simply of being silent.
Hear His Voice
Proverbs 3:5-6New International Version (NIV)
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.[a]